Loneliness ! Noooooooo.. Not for me !!

"Loneliness is the poverty of self; solitude is the richness of self"

Feeling lonely is very common to all of us. There are times when we feel extremely alone and restless and yearn for our dear ones to come around. We try to get them to our rescue but it doesn't work, then finally we feel helpless and depressed being lonely. These moments make you remember those people who enrich your life with their presence. So these moments have got their own significance in your life. But when all your efforts fail to get someone and when you realize that you are restless and depressed, then you need to take appropriate steps to get rid of this state of mind.
Firstly remember that it is not possible to have your loved ones with you all the time. And secondly that you have to live each and every moment of your life to the fullest and in the state of happiness. No matter how worst happens in life, still:

• Happiness is important.
• Happiness is desirable.
  
• Happiness is possible.
  

Now that you are not able to get someone's company to get rid of loneliness, then why not get and enjoy the company of your ownself.

We can consider the loneliness as the state when we are totally free to do anything that we wish to do and that too without any interruption by anyone and moreover without any opinion from anyone. And if we just try to recall that there are so many things that we generally want to do but keep postponing because of not being alone. So we can convert these moments of loneliness while getting engaged in those activities which fulfill our long pending wishes .

And you will realize that doing this, you can convert the so called miserable moments of loneliness into the memorable moments of joy and happiness.

I have listed down few of the activities that we all can do in loneliness. However you can also suggest some creative way of time pass.

1. Reading this blog is ofcourse the best time pass for you.
2. Call and have a talk with your mom, dad, brother, sister, cousins. Try not to call up your girlfriend/boyfriend because generally thats the origin for your loneliness.
3. Shuffle through phone book and call up some of your very old friend and have a chat.
4. Listening to your favorite music.
5. Singing. Just sing whatever are your favorite tracks are.
   
6. Dance practice.
   
7. Poetry, painting, sketching etc...
8. Watch your favorite channel on TV.
9. gtalk or yahoo messenger. Chat with old school/college friends.
10. Orkut, Facebook and other social networking.
11. Go out for a walk in the colony or market. ... etc. ... etc.

So I hope by now you know what you have to say if next time you come across loneliness:-

"Loneliness ! Noooooooo.. Not for me !!